Can I pet your dog?

Most people who walk their dogs get asked this question. You must be your dogs advocate in this situation. You are in charge of who and how someone approaches your dog. Dogs have good and bad days just as people do.  Sometimes you just do not want to be bothered, just left alone to relax or work the jitters out.  Dog are like this too!  You, and only you, can prevent a bad situation from happening. Sometimes when I am walking my dog, someone will ask if they can pet her.  I say, "let's ask her. Roxy, do you want to visit?"  If she sits down and is relaxed then I allow the person to approach.  If she turns her head away, walks behind me or does not want to stop I respect her space.  I will say, "Not today, sorry, maybe next time."  Do not ever let someone rush right up to your dog.  The dog may see this as a threat, someone who she needs to protect you from. Also do not let a group of people approach your dog and stand over her.  This is very threatening to a dog.  Imagine if a group of people circled you and looked down on you.  Very intimidating! Set your dog up for a successful encounter by asking her to sit. When she is relaxed let one person approach her, calmly, palm up, lower than the dogs head. This interaction should last no more than 20 seconds. Ask the person to back away and reassess your dogs willingness to engage further.  Be sure to tell your dog what a good girl she was for the interaction. The more positive encounters  you have the more your dog will enjoy meeting people. 

A good way to practice this at home-  Put your dog on a leash and ask her to sit.  Have someone walk towards your dog, if she remains in a sit let the person give her a small treat.  If she does not remain in a sit have that person walk by without looking at the dog.  Your dog is learning good manners and being rewarded for good behavior.